人的成长过程，就像喝下一杯只加了牛奶的咖啡，有香甜，有涩苦，两种味道刺激着我们的味蕾，才发现人生的确很美好可是往往就会带些烦恼。我妈曾告诉我，人越大，看的世界就越宽，自己的要求，想法，愿望就越多。
就像小时候的我曾想当一名公共巴士司机，总觉得很威风，流氓不载，小孩老人免费。天啊，现在想起来，小时候的我好胸无大志，我爸就会说早知道志愿那么渺小，就不用花钱供你读书。嗨哟，都讲是以前，要不是你老婆在我小时候天天灌输我她以前小时候多可怜，要不是敢不上巴士，就是那黑心的司机故意把巴士停到离巴士站很远，让瘦小的她背着重大的书包追上巴士；有时候巴士满了，又得多等一轮.....就这样从小那是我的小志愿。那司机也真是的，像我这样善良的心也没有。
人越大，懂的事情就越多。多亏上天赐我那么多的难题，让我经历了不少事情，自然而然明白不少：考试的失败，是最常有；家人的离去，是最痛苦；可是家人的关怀，是最幸福；朋友的信任，是最难得。可是拜托，不要再赐了，因为我是一个不擅长面对问题的人。
人越大，吵架后就越难复合。小时候不是因为妈妈不让我吃冰淇淋而吵，就是因为做功课不小心过了朋友的桌子被骂，然后吵架，冷战一节。谁叫我小时候就患上了气喘，咳嗽数年，连医生到现在还认得我。小时候都是为了小事而吵，可是没多久，勾勾手，又成朋友。那时的我们，思想单纯又简单。可是长大后的吵架原因就不同了，就是因为思想比较成熟，觉得有必要吵架才会吵，吵后才发现是多么难复合。 说穿了，还不是彼此都不肯踏上第一步。
人越大，要求就越多。当我第一次拥有一台属于自己的手机时，我可以开心到半夜起来看我的手机。可是人越大，需要的东西往往来的多。今天你有一台手机，明天你就会想要一台IPOD，后天你就会想要买一架DSLR。朋友说四年后，会驾一辆跑车给我看，拜托，这四年后再讲。把目标放高是允许的，可是期望不一定要占一百分。千万不要太炫耀，总是要留个阶梯给自己下台，在心炫耀就好。
人越大，就越无奈。就因为经历得越多，遇到的事情越多，越发现自己无法掌握命运，无法样样顺心，事不遂人愿，所以无奈也很正常。放心朋友，无奈是正常的。有个小朋友曾问我无奈是什么意思？无奈啊，这样的问题我也答不出，好无奈。流失的时间，别人的取笑，永远的过去，离你而去的亲人，不可避免的死亡，或者是离谱点的：突然倒向你的墙，让你就这样死去的，喝珍珠奶茶被珍珠哽到而死，都是人生好无奈的事。
.....人终要长大的。换言之，是自己慢慢学着成长，放慢脚步往后看看自己是否和我一样的改变。
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
Monday, May 9, 2011
-执著的故事-
今天读了一编文章还真的蛮有趣，话中有话。整大编都是人生的问题，天啊，读完之后还蛮觉得自己的问题不少。做人真的太多东西需要顾虑，道理一大堆，问题不断找上门，头一天比一天还要大。有时候我就是需要话中有话的故事，才会发现自己的问题存在。
问你们一个问题，如果你家附近有一家餐厅，东西又贵有难吃，桌上还爬着蟑螂，你会因为它很近，很方便，就一而再，再而三地光临吗？我知道你现在心里会这样想，这是什么烂问题，谁会那么笨，花钱买罪受？
可是同样的情况换个场合，自己或许就做类似的蠢事。不少男女都曾经抱怨过他们的情人或配偶这里不好，那里不好，比如品性不端，三心两意，不负责任。明知在一起没什么好的结果，或许怨恨还比爱来多，但却不知道为什么还是要和他搅和下去，分不了手。说穿了，可能只是为了不甘，为了习惯，哪这不也和光临餐厅一样？
做人，为什么要过于执着？常想，有时候执著是一种负担，放弃是一种解脱。人没有完美幸福，永远都得不到一百分。知道自己没有能力一次拥有那么多，也没有权要求那么多，那就不要执著否则苦的则是自己。
以前也有听过一个故事，有一天，老鼠对猫说：我爱你。猫说：滚远一点！老鼠流下一滴眼泪走了；但是谁也没有看到，就在老鼠转身的时候，猫也流下了一滴眼泪，就是因为不要执著而放弃彼此。 放弃该放弃的是无奈，放弃不该放弃的是无能，不放弃该放弃的是无知，不放弃不该放弃的是执著。
这不是单说爱情的执着，而是各方面。明知下了一段小雨，夜市巴刹不可能再营业，我还是会驾车去看，心想或许下完雨后他们又开始排摊，所以我妈常说我，不知听不明白还是不会听，就是硬要去看心才会满意。是固执还是执著？不，是太得空。:D
问你们一个问题，如果你家附近有一家餐厅，东西又贵有难吃，桌上还爬着蟑螂，你会因为它很近，很方便，就一而再，再而三地光临吗？我知道你现在心里会这样想，这是什么烂问题，谁会那么笨，花钱买罪受？
可是同样的情况换个场合，自己或许就做类似的蠢事。不少男女都曾经抱怨过他们的情人或配偶这里不好，那里不好，比如品性不端，三心两意，不负责任。明知在一起没什么好的结果，或许怨恨还比爱来多，但却不知道为什么还是要和他搅和下去，分不了手。说穿了，可能只是为了不甘，为了习惯，哪这不也和光临餐厅一样？
做人，为什么要过于执着？常想，有时候执著是一种负担，放弃是一种解脱。人没有完美幸福，永远都得不到一百分。知道自己没有能力一次拥有那么多，也没有权要求那么多，那就不要执著否则苦的则是自己。
以前也有听过一个故事，有一天，老鼠对猫说：我爱你。猫说：滚远一点！老鼠流下一滴眼泪走了；但是谁也没有看到，就在老鼠转身的时候，猫也流下了一滴眼泪，就是因为不要执著而放弃彼此。 放弃该放弃的是无奈，放弃不该放弃的是无能，不放弃该放弃的是无知，不放弃不该放弃的是执著。
这不是单说爱情的执着，而是各方面。明知下了一段小雨，夜市巴刹不可能再营业，我还是会驾车去看，心想或许下完雨后他们又开始排摊，所以我妈常说我，不知听不明白还是不会听，就是硬要去看心才会满意。是固执还是执著？不，是太得空。:D
Sunday, April 17, 2011
PENANG FU-UUUT!
Hey, people! I have really, really neglected my blog for a long time. Well, recently i'm searching penang food from net that i have never try before. No dare to say out that i have studied in penang for year and half but never try so many famous food. So before i have to start my uni life in somewhere else, I MUST TRY.
But people commented that is true, very unique kind of thirst killing drink! So lovely so delicious. :)
As i know, this hawker stall is located in Tamil Street/Penang Road, beside Chowrasta Market. And it is closed on Sunday. RM1.50 per glass is a nice complement with all the snacks that are sold around there, worth la worth la!
ICEBALL
Seriously, I ate cendol in penang road a few times. But i don't know besides cendol, we can make a request for their colourful iceball. How come i just know it recently? Seee, as i said at beginning, i dare not say i'm 'penang ka'.
But iceball is seldom seen nowadays and was once a very favourable item and loved by many children. My mum told me she likes to eat when kid. And she said it does bring back old memories when she remembered buying this type of iceball, at only RM0.10 cents after school hours.
Last time i went there for cendol, i and my friends all just stand around the stall eating the cendol. And it brings me fun lot, i love the way. :)
Oooh my, i think it is fun then holding the cold iceball with my bare hands. This is the best when the wheather is like oven hot for now. THIS I MUST GO!
But now, one such iceball douse with sarsi and red sugar syrup cost RM0.80. I wish I could see more of this iceball around town. Okay, it's open from 11pm-7pm.
COCONUT JELLY
I have tried this before in my hometown and mum bought it from pasar sri rambai. She told me rm4 each, but if you want have a try in penang, the price i don't know. But rm4 for each is quite expensive but if you never eat before, must try. It's super duper yummy and i could finished whole one.
Inside, you will get the yummy coconut flesh but with less coconut water as some of it has formed into jelly. You will be surprise to find a large amount of smooth jelly in there. Wooooo!
It's located at Jalan Dato Keramat, and it's near my college last. I saw the shop before, i walked pass the shop before, one thing is I NEVER STEP IN BEFORE. Okay, i'm regret. The shop is open for business from early morning to late afternoon. Last time i passed by the shop, it's always full a lot of people standing while enjoy drinking their coconut drinks beside road. And it's hard to find parking, i tell you!
If you know where have yummy food in penang, i welcome you to tell me. Happy sunday, BYE!
AIS TINGKAP
In penang, we always go for ice kacang and cendol as our desert. I found a hawker stall called 'Ais Tingkap' or 'Window Sherbet’ because the chilled sherbet drink was sold over the window when it first started in Penang. It is a sweet red colour flavored (rose essence) drink chilled with fine shaved ice served in chilled glass with pieces of coconut flesh.
Rose essence, in my opinion mostly chinese people don't like to drink it. But for me, i can accept it for sometimes. Let me show you how it is made.
This drink was created in the late 1920's. Of course over the years, this drink has undergone some changes. From the information, i found that in the olden days, they used 25 different herbs and ingrediens whereas now they only uses a few. Why? I don't know.
But people commented that is true, very unique kind of thirst killing drink! So lovely so delicious. :)
As i know, this hawker stall is located in Tamil Street/Penang Road, beside Chowrasta Market. And it is closed on Sunday. RM1.50 per glass is a nice complement with all the snacks that are sold around there, worth la worth la!
ICEBALL
Seriously, I ate cendol in penang road a few times. But i don't know besides cendol, we can make a request for their colourful iceball. How come i just know it recently? Seee, as i said at beginning, i dare not say i'm 'penang ka'.
But iceball is seldom seen nowadays and was once a very favourable item and loved by many children. My mum told me she likes to eat when kid. And she said it does bring back old memories when she remembered buying this type of iceball, at only RM0.10 cents after school hours.
Last time i went there for cendol, i and my friends all just stand around the stall eating the cendol. And it brings me fun lot, i love the way. :)
But now, one such iceball douse with sarsi and red sugar syrup cost RM0.80. I wish I could see more of this iceball around town. Okay, it's open from 11pm-7pm.
COCONUT JELLY
I have tried this before in my hometown and mum bought it from pasar sri rambai. She told me rm4 each, but if you want have a try in penang, the price i don't know. But rm4 for each is quite expensive but if you never eat before, must try. It's super duper yummy and i could finished whole one.
Inside, you will get the yummy coconut flesh but with less coconut water as some of it has formed into jelly. You will be surprise to find a large amount of smooth jelly in there. Wooooo!
If you know where have yummy food in penang, i welcome you to tell me. Happy sunday, BYE!
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
HELLO, THURSDAY!
HELLOOOOO, THURSDAY!
Dislike you so much, have to work on your day. Drama's time gone. Night market gone. -___-
On my way, i think we should work for 2 days and have 5 off every week for the same pay.
Well, i love exhilarating happening when working. Take for an example, had taught a four years old's little boy pronounced word of SWEET but he pronounced likes SHIT in the end. And when he read, sound's likes 'The cake is so SHIT! Oh My God, i love this kid so much. I want bring him home if wish. :)
A phrase 'Thankyou, teacher!' come out from their mouth can seriously turned my switch of mood into good mood. Kids, please say somemore next time! Hahaha. :D
But sometimes i think it's odd how people always notice when you come in late or leave early, but they don't care when you come in early, work late and/or work from home! Luckily i'm not, Hahaha.
Have to sleep. Good night, people!
Dislike you so much, have to work on your day. Drama's time gone. Night market gone. -___-
On my way, i think we should work for 2 days and have 5 off every week for the same pay.
Well, i love exhilarating happening when working. Take for an example, had taught a four years old's little boy pronounced word of SWEET but he pronounced likes SHIT in the end. And when he read, sound's likes 'The cake is so SHIT! Oh My God, i love this kid so much. I want bring him home if wish. :)
A phrase 'Thankyou, teacher!' come out from their mouth can seriously turned my switch of mood into good mood. Kids, please say somemore next time! Hahaha. :D
But sometimes i think it's odd how people always notice when you come in late or leave early, but they don't care when you come in early, work late and/or work from home! Luckily i'm not, Hahaha.
Have to sleep. Good night, people!
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Friendship is a tree. :)
Within this holiday, i realized that life without friendship is like the sky without sun. Oh gosh, i can't live well without friends, seriously.
Sometimes i felt friendship is like a tree. It is not measured on how TALL it could be, but is on how DEEP the roots have grown. :) And it's always a lot of sheltering tree around me. How lucky and fortunate i am. HAHAHAHA! I think the answer is on me. Errrr....YESH i know, because i'm friendly :PPP
But sometimes friends are like stars, i can't ALWAYS see them. But well, at least i know they are always for me. Stick, master, mafia, poju yap, mrs.cheah, prince, potato, tomato, mumu, phey chee jie..... you should know who you are. :)
Many people will walk in and out of my life, but only true friends will leave footprints in my heart. Is that you?
Maybe you're, but maybe you're not. But it's okay, at least you did it in other people life.
Stars have 5 ends, squares have 4 ends, triangles have 3 ends, lines have 2 ends, life has 1 end, but i hope my friendship is like a circle, has no end. :)
Opps, is a STARRRR! Yeeeeh, whose nails painted with blue color, miss pang yours one ah? :)
Sometimes i felt friendship is like a tree. It is not measured on how TALL it could be, but is on how DEEP the roots have grown. :) And it's always a lot of sheltering tree around me. How lucky and fortunate i am. HAHAHAHA! I think the answer is on me. Errrr....YESH i know, because i'm friendly :PPP
But sometimes friends are like stars, i can't ALWAYS see them. But well, at least i know they are always for me. Stick, master, mafia, poju yap, mrs.cheah, prince, potato, tomato, mumu, phey chee jie..... you should know who you are. :)
Many people will walk in and out of my life, but only true friends will leave footprints in my heart. Is that you?
Maybe you're, but maybe you're not. But it's okay, at least you did it in other people life.
Stars have 5 ends, squares have 4 ends, triangles have 3 ends, lines have 2 ends, life has 1 end, but i hope my friendship is like a circle, has no end. :)
Opps, is a STARRRR! Yeeeeh, whose nails painted with blue color, miss pang yours one ah? :)
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
原来我就是这样的我
原来我就有那么的一个怪行为，我最讨厌起床后要我讲话。就算已经刷牙后，我也不喜欢。所以我爸常说，我这个女儿人很大牌，要等到她有心情时，才可以跟她讲话。
全家都知，没办法，我改不了。这习惯跟我已有十年了吧，还记得有一次，我刚睡醒，赖在床上，亲戚打电话来，表弟进来房间叫我听电话，我说了：跟她讲我现在不想讲话，等下再打来。现在想起来，还蛮难为我的表弟。过后，他只告诉我‘天啊，你这个人很奇怪！’‘是啊，可是在法律上是没罪的。’
....我这个人就是不喜欢重复。如果没听好，再问我，我就会说没事了。这点，连慧晶最了解我了，因为她就是那个总是让我讲没事的！:DDDDD
今天是我妈生日，所以今天我特别乖，不惹她，不出门！但其实我每天都是这样的，没什么特别咯，哈哈！本来打算今早要陪她去运动，可是六点半闹钟一响，脑海了想着一句：算了，明天再补回！又过了一年，但她还是老样子，没老到，反而越来越新潮，有时还真的不能赢她！说真的，她很喜欢拍照。你是最棒的妈妈，生日快乐！
全家都知，没办法，我改不了。这习惯跟我已有十年了吧，还记得有一次，我刚睡醒，赖在床上，亲戚打电话来，表弟进来房间叫我听电话，我说了：跟她讲我现在不想讲话，等下再打来。现在想起来，还蛮难为我的表弟。过后，他只告诉我‘天啊，你这个人很奇怪！’‘是啊，可是在法律上是没罪的。’
....我这个人就是不喜欢重复。如果没听好，再问我，我就会说没事了。这点，连慧晶最了解我了，因为她就是那个总是让我讲没事的！:DDDDD
今天是我妈生日，所以今天我特别乖，不惹她，不出门！但其实我每天都是这样的，没什么特别咯，哈哈！本来打算今早要陪她去运动，可是六点半闹钟一响，脑海了想着一句：算了，明天再补回！又过了一年，但她还是老样子，没老到，反而越来越新潮，有时还真的不能赢她！说真的，她很喜欢拍照。你是最棒的妈妈，生日快乐！
好啦，我知道待在家白吃白住好有几个月了，明天就去做工咯！然后才有钱可以不时地去喝珍珠奶茶。 :)
Saturday, February 26, 2011
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